Perineal Massage Brisbane

Osteopath providing professional guidance with perineal massage during pregnancy in Brisbane.

Many mums-to-be find perineal massage a bit daunting at first. Perhaps you're wondering if you're doing it correctly? Maybe finding a comfortable position feels tricky? Or you might be experiencing some discomfort and aren't quite sure why. These feelings are completely normal and gentle, professional guidance can make all the difference in your journey.

Sarah and Elizabeth (Liz) are experienced osteopaths who can either guide you or your partner through the process, or if you prefer, you can receive the treatment directly from their experienced hands.

Benefits of Perineal Massage

  • 21% lower incidence of episiotomies

  • 64% reduced risk of third and fourth-degree perineal tears

  • Better wound healing

  • 2.39% less likely to have perineal pain during the postnatal period

  • Reduced second stage of labour

  • 70% less likely to have anal incontinence

Aim of Perineal Massage

Perineal massage is a powerful technique that enhances tissue flexibility while offering much deeper benefits for your birthing journey.

This practice creates a meaningful connection with your perineum, teaching you to harmonise your breath with the sensations you may experience. Learning to soften into the sensation rather than tensing against it becomes an invaluable skill to carry into your birthing space.

What to Expect from a Perineal Massage Session

Start by telling Us Your Story

We will begin by taking a brief history. There are many factors that can contribute to pelvic floor tension including stress, previous injuries or trauma.

Your Comfort, Privacy and Consent

Your comfort and sense of control are important throughout your appointment. Consent isn't something that's only discussed at the beginning of your session—it's an ongoing conversation.

We'll check in with you regularly, explain what we're doing before we do it, and make sure you're comfortable to continue. We use draping for privacy and we encourage you to ask questions or let us know if you'd like anything adjusted.

If at any point you would like to pause, stop, or choose not to continue with any part of your assessment or treatment, that's completely okay. We'll always respect your decision without question.

The Hands-On Part – You Have Options

Everyone feels differently about perineal massage, and there's no right or wrong approach. Some people prefer their practitioner to perform the massage, while others would like to learn how to do it themselves or involve their partner. We'll discuss your preferences and help you choose the option that feels most comfortable for you.

Option One: Perineal Massage by Your Practitioner

This is an ideal option for those who are not interested in doing it themselves and would prefer to leave it to the experts.

After checking that you're comfortable to continue, your practitioner will gently insert a finger (sometimes two) a short distance into your vagina (approximately 2–4 cm). They will then gently massage your perineum while guiding you through breathing and visualisation techniques to help your pelvic floor relax and encourage your perineal tissues to become more flexible.

Many people also find this an opportunity to become more familiar with the sensations of stretch and learn ways to relax their pelvic floor in preparation for birth.

Depending on your needs, this can be performed once or twice a week.

Option Two: Support in Doing Your Own Perineal Massage

If you'd like to perform your own perineal massage at home but aren't sure where to start, we're here to help.

Your practitioner will begin by showing you what a perineal massage feels like (as described above). We will then work with you to find a position that feels comfortable and guide you through the technique, helping you build the confidence to continue at home if you choose.

Option Three: Support with Partner Perineal Massage

Some people choose to have their partner involved in perineal massage, while others prefer not to. Both approaches are completely okay.

If you would like your partner to be involved, your practitioner will begin by showing them what a perineal massage looks like (as described above). They will then work with both of you to find a comfortable position and guide your partner through the technique.

For many couples, this can also be a valuable opportunity to learn how your body responds to sensations of stretch and discomfort, and to explore breathing, positioning and other strategies that may help you relax your pelvic floor and build confidence leading into labour.

Education

Throughout your session we will work with you on different cues, breathing techniques, visualisations and affirmations to identify what your body and pelvic floor responds well to.

This can give you an embodied sense of how you can create more space and flexibility within your perineal tissues.

Please note that during your session, we may recommend coming in for an osteopathic session to help address any factors that may be contributing to your perineal tension. This is completely optional.

Ready to Learn More?

If you're concerned about any pain or discomfort you may be experiencing, or you need further information or support with perineal massage, get in contact with us or book a perineal massage session.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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